How often have we all heard...
- Live life to the fullest
- Time is precious
- Make the most of your life
- Live every day like it is your last
What does all this mean? How do we live life to the fullest? How do we use our time wisely?
I struggle with this.
- If I am not busy, does this mean I am not making the most of my days?
- If I am having a lazy afternoon, am I wasting the time I have left?
- If I am not being productive, am I going to regret this someday?
As I age, I have learned that living a full life does not mean being active every waking moment. It really means embracing the moments of our days.
I have realized that reading a fun spy novel allows my brain to think differently. Sitting on the porch watching the birds and squirrels, allows me to calm my breathing and understand the world around me. Even taking a nap helps ensure my body and mind get the rest they need.
To me, making the most of each day no longer means I have to be either trying new things, being productive, or traveling to new places. It actually means just being the best me I can be. Staying in touch with friends. Working to strengthen my mind. Enjoying being calm.
I am lucky to have some leisure ("down") time. I just need to remember that taking advantage of this luxury can also truly be living my life - just on a different level.
This is so very true, thank you for sharing and putting into words what I am sure many of us (especially women) wonder about often.....
ReplyDeleteI am glad you found this helpful. I struggle with this a lot and it helps to know I am not alone. Thanks for taking the time to read my blog and post a comment. It means a lot to me.
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